MY JOURNEY TO YOGA RETREAT SPECIALIST PART 3: YOGA

Let the yoga begin!

Or not. My path to becoming a yoga teacher was not exactly paved with cushy yoga mats!

Fitness took me pretty far in life. If you read part 2 of my story, you know it got me through being a somewhat lost stay-at-home mom, through a rough divorce, and on to a real career in an industry I loved.

As my career progressed and led me to management roles in my company, it also brought me to becoming a yoga teacher. Sort of.

Yoga had begun to expand out of the studio environment and into mainstream big-box gyms, with increasing popularity. It was my job to decide what to put on all my gym schedules and I felt like it was important to really know what each class was about. The best way to explain something to someone else is to have done it yourself!

So I took classes.

Lots of them. I took classes with well-known very popular teachers. I took classes at my gym, at other gyms, at studios, and at industry conferences.

And I really hated it!

I felt like the classes went too fast. There was not much time to get into and out of each asana and then we were on to the next one.

I found it challenging because I didn’t know what the asanas were, especially since many of the teachers used the Sanskrit names for the poses and I had no idea what they were talking about.

There was also very little instruction on proper form and execution, allowing for some really atrocious postures. In my case, as a chronic migraine sufferer, this lack of information led to me coming away with a migraine almost every time I took a class!

I had given up on ever really enjoying yoga.

I’d basically written it off as one of those forms of movement that were just not for me.

Eventually, one of my colleagues and longtime friends in fitness invited me to come to her class. Doris Thews and I shared a lot of similarities in both our personal and professional lives. What I knew about Doris is that her background in teaching mirrored my own. If anyone could make yoga make sense to me, it would be her. What did I have to lose?

What I learned changed my mind about yoga forever.

The approach that Doris took in teaching the class was different than what I had experienced so far. She acknowledged that she wasn’t the most flexible person in the world, but that yoga didn’t care. She noted that some people may be more or less flexible than her and that was okay; each of us should work to our own ability.

As we dove into the class, Doris took time to explain how to move into, hold, and transition out of each asana. Suddenly I didn’t feel like my shoulders were up in my ears during every down dog! Her simple explanation of how to perform the movement (in English!) made all the difference in whether I got a migraine or not.

Having the right teacher makes all the difference.

After that experience, I began to get the yoga fever. Practicing yoga in a way that made sense to me made all the difference.

As a matter of fact, the whole reason I created the What Kind of Yogi Are YOU quiz was to help other people take a shortcut to finding that right fit. It’s not about what style of yoga might like. It’s all about finding a teacher with an approach to yoga that matches your vibe.

My next step was to learn more about it. I read up on it. I took more classes. Eventually, I decided to become a certified yoga teacher.

I even used it in coaching people to work through stress, anxiety, and trauma. One of the principles of yoga is service. If you want to know where you can best serve people, you look at your own wounds. Well, I had quite a background in divorce, parental alienation, and religious trauma. Yoga has helped me and helped me to support others in working through these issues.

Now we are up to speed!

Well, almost.

In the fourth and final part of this series, I will share how I went from a successful fitness executive to a yoga retreat specialist.

See you in part 4!

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6 KEYS OF TRAUMA-INFORMED YOGA

Trauma-informed yoga is a specialized approach to yoga that considers the physical, mental, and emotional well-being of individuals who have experienced trauma.

Each class or session is designed to create a safe and supportive environment for you and aims to avoid triggering any distressing experiences or emotions that may be associated with trauma.

What is Trauma?

Trauma refers to a distressing or disturbing event or series of events that overwhelm an individual’s ability to cope, leaving them feeling overwhelmed, powerless, and emotionally or physically harmed. Traumatic experiences can be of various types and intensity, and they may be physical, emotional, or psychological in nature.

Common Examples of Traumatic Events Include but are not limited to:

  1. Physical abuse or assault
  2. Emotional or psychological abuse
  3. Sexual abuse or assault
  4. Natural disasters (e.g., earthquakes, floods)
  5. Accidents (e.g., car crashes)
  6. Combat experiences (in military personnel)
  7. Witnessing violence or death
  8. Serious illnesses or medical procedures
  9. Loss of a loved one
  10. Bullying or harassment

These types of events can have profound and long-lasting effects on an individual’s mental, emotional, and physical well-being. It can disrupt normal coping mechanisms and lead to a range of emotional responses, such as fear, anxiety, depression, anger, guilt, or shame. Additionally, trauma can also impact memory, relationships, and overall functioning.

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is a recognized mental health condition that can develop following exposure to a traumatic event. However, not everyone who experiences trauma will develop PTSD.

It’s important to understand that people respond differently to traumatic experiences, and what may be traumatic for one person may not be the same for another. Seeking professional help and support from mental health professionals is crucial for individuals dealing with the effects of trauma. Treatment options can include therapy, counseling, and, in some cases, medication to help manage symptoms and promote healing.

Key Principles of Trauma-Informed Yoga:

Safety and Choice: A Trauma-Informed Yoga teacher will create a safe and non-threatening environment. You are free to make choices throughout the practice, such as modifying poses or taking breaks as needed.

Empowerment: Participants will feel empowered! Teachers will give them a sense of control over their bodies and experiences. They use invitational language, allowing participants to explore sensations and movements at their own pace.

Awareness of Triggers: Your teacher will be aware of and avoid potential triggers and language or guiding practices that may be upsetting to you if you have a trauma background.

Body Awareness and Sensation: Connect with your body in a gentle and supportive manner. You will focus more on body awareness and sensation, rather than achieving specific poses.

Mindfulness and Breath: Mindfulness techniques and breathwork can help individuals regulate their nervous system and cope with stress and anxiety. This is a crucial part of trauma-informed practice.

Grounding and Centering: Teachers will guide you to feel more grounded and present in the moment. This might be especially helpful if you experience dissociation or feelings of being disconnected from your body.

Specialty Trained Teachers are a Must

Trauma-informed yoga teachers typically undergo specialized training to gain a deeper understanding of the effects of trauma on the body and mind. We approach students with sensitivity, compassion, and deep respect for each individual’s unique healing process.

It’s important to note that trauma-informed yoga is not meant to replace therapy or other trauma-focused treatments but can be used as a complementary practice to support healing and resilience. If someone has experienced trauma and is considering participating in a trauma-informed yoga class, it’s advisable to discuss it with a mental health professional to ensure it aligns with their specific needs and healing journey.

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