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WELLNESS DEFINED

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What Does Wellness Actually Mean?

Wellness or well-being can mean many different things to many different people.

To some, it’s about hitting the gym every day. To others, it’s ensuring a balanced diet or carving out time for family and friends.

And for some, it might be as simple as having a good night’s sleep or enjoying a weekend hiking trip.

But what does it really mean to be well? With so many opinions and definitions, it can be a daunting task to figure out how to prioritize our well-being. While some definitions can overlap, it’s essential to understand that each facet of wellness plays a crucial role in our overall health.

To give you a clearer picture, let’s explore different interpretations of wellness and then introduce our holistic approach that might just resonate with you.

Diverse Perspectives on Wellness

1. Fitness Fans

Physical health enthusiasts view wellness primarily through the lens of bodily health. This perspective emphasizes regular exercise, proper nutrition, and sufficient sleep. For these individuals, being well means staying fit and energetic, reducing the risk of disease, and maintaining an ideal body weight.

I have to admit that for years, this is what wellness meant to me personally. Kind of hard not to fall into that thinking with 30 years in the fitness industry behind you!

Clearly, the benefits are many. Regular exercise and a healthy diet can increase energy levels, improve mood, and enhance cognitive function, allowing you to be more productive and focused in your daily life. It helps stave off disease and allows you to do more of the things you love to do.

Obviously, tons of benefits associated with taking care of our physical health.

But if that is our sole focus and we neglect other areas such as mental and emotional health, we can end up feeling burned out, anxious, or even depressed.

2. Mental Health Advocates

For some, wellness is defined by mental and emotional well-being. These individuals prioritize managing stress, practicing mindfulness, and maintaining a positive outlook on life. They understand the importance of mental health in achieving overall well-being.

By prioritizing mental health, you can manage stress more effectively, improve your relationships, and approach your work and personal life with a clear and positive mindset. This can lead to being better at establishing boundaries, saying no when needed, and creating a better work life balance.

However, overemphasizing mental wellness while neglecting physical health can lead to health issues like obesity, heart disease, or chronic fatigue.

3. Spiritual Seekers

Spiritual seekers define wellness as a connection to something greater than themselves. This could be through religion, meditation, or a sense of purpose and meaning in life. They believe that wellness is about inner peace and spiritual growth.

Engaging in spiritual practices can provide a sense of calm, enhance your ability to cope with stress, and foster a deeper connection with yourself and others.

Unfortunately, focusing solely on spiritual well-being without considering other aspects can lead to a lack of balance, making it difficult to cope with practical, day-to-day challenges.

A Holistic Approach to Wellness

True wellness is a comprehensive approach that encompasses all facets of life.

We define wellness using the 10 basic pillars: emotional, mental, financial, physical, social, spiritual, creative, environmental, occupational, and intellectual.

Each of these pillars is unique, yet interconnected, contributing to our overall well-being.

1. Emotional Wellness

Emotional wellness involves understanding and managing your emotions. It’s about being able to express your feelings appropriately and cope with life’s challenges.

By nurturing your emotional health, you can handle stress more effectively, improve your relationships, and enjoy a more fulfilling and balanced life.

2. Mental Wellness

Mental wellness is about maintaining a healthy mindset. This includes self-awareness, resilience, and the ability to cope with stress and anxiety.

Prioritizing mental health can lead to better decision-making, improved problem-solving skills, and a more positive outlook on life.

3. Financial Wellness

Financial wellness refers to managing your finances in a way that reduces stress and anxiety. It involves planning for the future, living within your means, and having a safety net for unexpected expenses.

Achieving financial wellness can provide peace of mind, reduce stress, and allow you to focus on other areas of your life without the constant worry about money.

4. Physical Wellness

Physical wellness is about taking care of your body through regular exercise, a balanced diet, and sufficient sleep.

By maintaining physical health, you can increase your energy levels, reduce the risk of illness, and improve your overall quality of life.

5. Social Wellness

Social wellness involves building and maintaining healthy relationships with others. It’s about connecting with people, fostering a sense of belonging, and creating a support network.

Strong social connections can improve your mood, reduce stress, and provide a sense of purpose and belonging.

6. Spiritual Wellness

Spiritual wellness is about finding meaning and purpose in life. It’s about connecting with something greater than yourself and developing a set of values and beliefs.

Spiritual wellness can provide a sense of inner peace, improve your ability to cope with stress, and enhance your overall well-being.

7. Creative Wellness

Creative wellness involves expressing yourself through creative activities. It’s about using your imagination and creativity to enhance your life.

Engaging in creative activities can reduce stress, improve mood, and provide a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction.

8. Environmental Wellness

Environmental wellness is about living in harmony with the earth and taking care of your surroundings. It involves making sustainable choices and reducing your impact on the environment.

By practicing environmental well-being, you can improve your physical and mental health, reduce stress, and contribute to a healthier planet.

9. Occupational Wellness

Occupational well-being is about finding fulfillment and satisfaction in your work. It’s about balancing your work and personal life and finding a career that aligns with your values and goals.

Achieving occupational wellness can lead to increased job satisfaction, improved work-life balance, and greater overall well-being.

10. Intellectual Wellness

Intellectual wellness involves engaging in activities that stimulate your mind and enhance your knowledge and skills. It’s about lifelong learning and personal growth.

By prioritizing intellectual well-being, you can improve your problem-solving skills, increase your creativity, and enhance your overall quality of life.

The Importance of Being Balanced

While each of these areas of wellness is important, it’s crucial to remember that they are interconnected. Focusing too much on one area at the expense of others can lead to imbalances and negative consequences.

For example, neglecting physical health while focusing on financial wellness might lead to stress, fatigue, and illness. On the other hand, prioritizing physical health without considering mental or emotional well-being might lead to burnout and decreased productivity.

Benefits of a Holistic Approach

Taking a holistic approach to well-being can provide numerous benefits. By addressing all areas of your well-being, you can achieve a more balanced and fulfilling life.

You’ll be better equipped to handle stress, improve your relationships, and find satisfaction in your work and personal life. Plus, taking care of your overall well-being can contribute to a longer, healthier life.

Start Your Journey to Wellness Today

Ready to take the first step towards a more balanced and fulfilling life?

Start by assessing your current well-being in each of these areas. Identify areas where you might need to focus more attention and take small steps towards improvement.

Whether it’s setting aside time for self-care, seeking out new learning opportunities, or building stronger relationships, every step you take towards wellness can have a positive impact on your life.

Well-being is a journey, not a destination. It’s about making conscious choices to live a healthier, more fulfilling life. So, embrace the journey, take care of yourself, and enjoy the benefits of a balanced and holistic approach to your well-being.

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Isn’t it time to leave burnout behind and lead a life that makes YOU a priority? Consider rebooting your mind and body with one of our wellness retreats! Designed specifically to immerse you in an environment that takes you out of your daily grind, you will be able to focus on crafting your life in a way that honors your family and career while carving out time to pursue interests that excite you so you can feel balanced, fulfilled, and calm. Get on the info list so you know what is happening, when, and where!

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REWILD YOUR LIFE

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Rediscover Yourself Amidst Life’s Chaos

In the hustle of daily life, it’s easy to lose yourself. Between demanding careers, adult children and/or grandchildren, and caring for aging parents, finding time for yourself can feel impossible.

But there’s a transformative practice that can help you reconnect with your core self: Rewilding.

To Rewild yourself is about rediscovering your innate nature, your wild essence. It’s not just a retreat into the wilderness, but a return to your inner wilderness. This journey is about peeling away the layers of societal expectations, responsibilities, and roles that have accumulated over the years. It’s about listening to the whispers of your soul and honoring your true self.

Start with Nature

Start with small steps. Spend time in nature—walk barefoot on the grass, breathe in the forest air, or simply sit by a stream. Nature has a unique way of grounding us and offering a sense of peace and clarity. Consider regular hikes, nature walks, or even gardening as ways to connect with the earth. These moments in nature can serve as a reminder of the simplicity and beauty of life, helping you to slow down and appreciate the present. Rewild yourself with the wild around you!

Revive Old Passions

Embrace creative pursuits that you once loved but set aside, like painting, dancing, or writing. These activities can reignite your passions and remind you of who you are beyond your roles and obligations. Take a class in something that has always intrigued you or start a small project that brings you joy. The act of creating can be incredibly therapeutic and fulfilling.

Physical Self-Care

To Rewild yourself also means caring for your physical self. Prioritize nourishing foods, regular movement, and ample rest. Listen to your body’s needs and honor them without guilt.

This self-care is not an indulgence; it’s essential for maintaining your vitality and connection to your core.

Explore different types of physical activity that resonate with you, whether it’s yoga, tai chi, or even dance. The goal is to find joy in movement and to reconnect with your body in a positive, loving way. Radical Wellness is a way of life!

Mindfulness Practices

Practice mindfulness. Meditation, journaling, or simply taking a few minutes each day to breathe deeply can help you stay connected to your inner self. These practices can serve as a reminder that, despite the chaos around you, there is a wild, unchanging essence within. Start a daily journal where you can express your thoughts and feelings freely. Meditation apps or guided sessions can be particularly helpful if you’re new to the practice.

Set Boundaries

Learn to set boundaries. It’s essential to carve out time for yourself amidst your responsibilities. Communicate your needs to your family and loved ones. It’s okay to say no to certain obligations that drain your energy and take away from your personal growth. Setting these boundaries will allow you the space and time to focus on rewilding yourself.

Connect with Like-Minded Individuals

Surround yourself with people who support your journey. Seek out communities or groups that resonate with your rewilding goals. Sharing this experience with like-minded individuals can provide encouragement and inspiration. Join local meetups, online forums, or workshops focused on personal growth and nature connection.

Simplify Your Life

Consider simplifying your life. Declutter your living space and remove things that no longer serve you. A simpler, more organized environment can lead to a clearer mind and more focused energy. This process of decluttering can be incredibly freeing and can help you feel more in control of your surroundings.

Practice Gratitude

Incorporate a daily gratitude practice. Taking a few moments each day to reflect on what you are thankful for can shift your mindset and help you focus on the positives in your life. This practice can bring a sense of peace and fulfillment, reminding you of the abundance around you.

Reconnect with Your Inner Child

Reconnect with your inner child. Engage in activities that you loved as a child—whether it’s playing a musical instrument, drawing, or simply daydreaming. These activities can unlock a sense of joy and wonder that you may have forgotten.

Explore Rewilding Retreats

Rewild Yourself in Africa

Consider attending a rewilding retreat. These retreats are specifically designed to help you disconnect from the chaos of daily life and reconnect with your inner self and nature.

They offer structured programs that may include activities like wildlife interaction, mindfulness exercises, yoga, and creative workshops.

The immersive experience in a supportive environment can accelerate your journey to self-discovery and provide tools and practices to integrate into your everyday life. Research and find a retreat that aligns with your interests and goals, and take the plunge into a transformative experience.

Rewilding yourself is a journey back to your roots, to the person you were before life’s demands took over. It’s about reclaiming your joy, passions, and sense of wonder. Embrace this path, and you’ll find that reconnecting with your core nature brings profound fulfillment and balance. Remember, this journey is personal and unique to you, so honor your own pace and preferences. Rewilding is not a destination but an ongoing process of self-discovery and growth.

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Isn’t it time to leave burnout behind and lead a life that makes YOU a priority? Consider rebooting your mind and body with one of our wellness retreats! Designed specifically to immerse you in an environment that takes you out of your daily grind, you will be able to focus on crafting your life in a way that honors your family and career while carving out time to pursue interests that excite you so you can feel balanced, fulfilled, and calm. Get on the info list so you know what is happening, when, and where!

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5 LIFE LESSONS I LEARNED FROM MY HAIR

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My hair is living its own life – I’m just sort of along for the ride

And it’s always ready to school me in it’s latest life lessons.

Most of you know I started my professional life as a hairdresser, but really, my hair obsession started far earlier than that.

It started in 1973. I had always had bangs, thanks to my mother’s method of using TAPE (!) to create a “straight” line to cut my bangs. Except that I had some pretty wicked cowlicks in the front and the bangs were never straight.

I decided to let my bangs grow out, to which my mom replied with relief “yes, that is probably best.”

There I was, 7 years old and my hair was calling the shots

Flash forward a few years. 1979. I had my own money – hello babysitting – and paid for my own haircuts. I had a place that I actually liked but my mom had a coupon for a new place and talked me into going there instead.

Immediately the stylist said I should get the “Dorothy Hamill” haircut aka a wedge. I was not into it, I told her I was not into it, I even told her my father did not want me to have short hair (which was the truth).

She said okay.

Then turned me away from the mirror and proceeded to cut – you guessed it – a perfect wedge.

My school picture that year has me looking like I want to kill someone. And I did. That hairdresser.

Jump ahead another few years.

I’m in Beauty School to become a hairdresser.

That’s right – I’m now a hairdresser. In the 80’s.

Perms. Mousse. White Rain hairspray. The whole nine baby.

I had a solid decade of perm.

Then I wanted to color it too.

It was too much for my poor strands so I had to choose.

Color won out. It was the 90’s now. Perms were kind of passe. Warm reddish brown was the new me.

Life Lessons - 80's perm

Enter the phase of trying to just figure it out

After all, two young kids, an active lifestyle, and limited time and funds were the order of the day.

My life has continued to evolve and so has my hair.

I still love style products. I wear it relatively short in spite of what my dad thinks. And believe it or not, I actually like my hair (most of the time).

It all works because I realized my hair is WISE! It was doing more than just sitting on my head, causing me grief. My hair was teaching me some life lessons and I just needed to sit up and take notice.

Lesson 1: Don’t fight it!

Back in the 70’s when the whole bangs situation was rearing up (literally!) my hair was clearly saying “Hey, this is who I am. You can try to do something that doesn’t work but I will assert myself!”

There are parts of you that you quite possibly ignore, thinking they are a little too wild, a little too out there. The more you try to force yourself into a straight line, the more those parts will have to assert themselves.

If you just let it go and let it be what it is going to be, it will likely settle in after a bit and be just fine. You just have to get over the awkward grow-out phase.

We are all growing and changing. Sometimes trying out something new seems weird or out of your wheelhouse initially until you figure out the nuances that suit you.

Lesson 2: Trust your gut

That Dorothy Hamill haircut was the worst! So. Not. Me.

And I had paid for it!

I had someone that was right for me, that knew and understood my hair. But with just a little pressure – and a desire to please my mom – I ignored my gut, went to someone I didn’t want to go to even though it was my own money and paid not just with my money but my dignity as well.

I have had this lesson taught to me repeatedly. I think I was about 38 before it sunk in.

Do what works for you, not for someone else. They don’t have to live with the consequences and you do.

When I first started on my yoga journey I hated it! Eventually, though I figured out what yoga meant to me, focused on that, and then fell in love with it!

Lesson 3: Be who you really are

I loved my crazy 80’s perm. For awhile. My hair, however, eventually objected. “One more perm and I will frizz you!!”

While I liked the kinky curl that defined the era, that wasn’t my hair’s true nature. My real hair was a bit wavy in places, straight here and there, soft and even glossy.

I didn’t need all that frenetic energy. It was not me. Not for my hair and not for my personality. I am not one of those party and stay out late kind of people. I am asleep by 10p (okay really 9:30p…).

Trying to be something I am not just left me frizzy around the edges! While I loved aspects of it for other people, I needed to focus on what worked best for me.

Lesson 4: But also be whom you aspire to be

After giving up the perm I did give in to some color.

Nothing way off base. Just a little more warmth to liven things up a bit.

Still me, just a little bit fancied up.

We all aspire to be a certain way – a little nicer/kinder, more open and friendly, or whatever.

“Acting as if” isn’t about being a fake, it’s more about taking what you’ve got and just pushing to the next level, to be the person you want to be.

Lesson 5: A little control is good; too much just makes you brittle

Hairspray is kinda my first and longest love. Back in the day, it was all about shellacking the hell out of your hair.

It could not move.

It also flaked, made your hair dry and dull and definitely uninviting.

These days I still like some control – hello Kenra 25

But it’s soft, doesn’t build up, and lets my hair still feel like hair.

Life is the same way. Too much control and things may appear to be “perfect” but really your life is stiff and brittle, not organic and flexible.

You want freedom within your framework. Structure yes, but not rigidity. The ability to go with the flow is a lot healthier for you in the end.

Ahhh…now my attraction to yoga makes sense! The very heart of yoga allows you to find structure, learning to accept yourself as you are now and as you wish to be. Life lessons GALORE!

Life lessons are all around you

Yes, even in something as seemingly inconsequential as your hair (shh – don’t let my hair know I said that!)

You just have to look at things from a little bit of a different perspective. Find that space for yourself, that grace for yourself, and carve out the time to act on it.

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52 MICRO ADVENTURES FOR THE NEW YEAR

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Adventure is the name of the 2024 game – at least for me.

I believe in setting intentions and choosing a word or two for the year rather than resolutions. It’s about bringing a mindset into everything I do. Resolutions tend to go by the wayside come February. When I want to make changes in how I live my life, I start with attitude!

Enter “Adventure”!

I’m not going to lie – I am a planner. A reserved planner at that. And yet…I still love a good adventure. After all, think about the stories you retell most. Don’t they often have a measure of unpredictability to them? Things went crazy or you let yourself go with the flow? Some of my biggest life changes started with some significant risks involved and still turned out to be the best thing I could have done.

I am committed to bringing that sense of adventure to my life in big and small ways this year. The biggest difference between adventure and adversity is attitude! Not that I want to run headlong into bad situations and try to call it adventure.

I want to shift my “oh no, what now?” reactions to “oh, this is interesting!”. I feel like the best way to practice that is to put myself in the way of adventure.

And of course, bring you along!

Micro Adventure Lab

I’ve put together a curated list of Micro Adventures – plus a few bigger things – to ease into the mindset shift. Many of these adventures are free or low cost with a few splurges included. Some can be completed in one weekend and others are designed to carry forward through a few weeks or even become a habit.

The idea is to go a bit outside your norms. For example, the first adventure on the list is to explore a local park. That means check out a park you have never been to before, not the same one you walk your dog at 3 times a week. In a nutshell, discover something new!

The 52 Micro Adventure list

1.      Explore a Local Park:
Take a leisurely stroll through a nearby park, focusing on appreciating the natural surroundings.

2.      Photography Challenge:
Capture a series of 10 photos that highlight the beauty of your everyday surroundings.
3.      Volunteer at a Community Garden:
Spend a day planting, weeding, and connecting with local community members.
4.      Try a New Recipe:
Experiment with a cuisine you’ve never attempted before, and share the results with friends or family.

5.      Book Club Adventure:
Join a local book club or start one with friends, and commit to reading one book a month.
6.      Yoga Retreat at Home:
Dedicate a weekend to practicing yoga and mindfulness, using online resources or attending local classes.
7.      Outdoor Movie Night:
Arrange a backyard movie night with friends, complete with blankets, popcorn, and a classic film.
8.      Art Class or Workshop:
Sign up for a local art class or workshop to discover and develop your artistic talents.
9.      Day of Pampering:
Treat yourself to a spa day at home, complete with DIY face masks, bath salts, and relaxation.
10.     Local History Exploration:
Visit a nearby museum or historical site to learn more about the heritage of your community.
11.     Learn a Musical Instrument:
Pick up a budget-friendly instrument and commit to learning a few songs over the next month.
12.     Creative Writing Challenge:
Write a short story or poem and share it with a writing group or online platform.

13.     Beach Day Getaway:
Spend a day at the beach, soaking up the sun and enjoying the calming sound of the waves.
14.     Hiking Adventure:
Explore a local trail or nature reserve, aiming to complete a new hike each month.
15.     DIY Home Decor Project:
Refresh your living space by taking on a small DIY home decor project.


16.     Plant a Garden:
Cultivate a small garden, whether it’s flowers, herbs, or vegetables, and enjoy watching it flourish.
17.     Mindfulness Meditation Challenge:
Practice mindfulness meditation for 10 minutes daily for a week, gradually extending the duration.
18.     Explore Local Farmers’ Markets:
Discover and support local farmers by visiting nearby farmers’ markets.
19.     Host a Potluck Dinner:
Organize a potluck gathering with friends, encouraging everyone to bring their favorite dish.
20.     Cultural Cuisine Night:
Cook or order food from a different culture and enjoy a themed dinner night at home.
21.     Learn a Dance Style:
Take dance lessons, either in person or online, and master the basics of a new dance style.
22.     Picnic in the Park:
Pack a picnic basket with your favorite treats and spend a relaxing afternoon in a local park.
23.     Nature Sketching:
Bring a sketchbook to a nature spot and spend time sketching the beauty around you.
24.     DIY Craft Workshop:
Attend a local craft workshop or organize a crafting day with friends.
25.     Fitness Challenge:
Set a fitness goal, like walking a certain number of steps each day, and track your progress.

26.     Museum Exploration:
Visit a museum you’ve never been to before and immerse yourself in its exhibits.
27.     Mindful Eating Experiment:
Practice mindful eating by savoring each bite and paying attention to the flavors and textures.
28.     Local Theater Night:
Attend a local theater production or watch a live performance, supporting the arts in your community.
29.     Scenic Drive Adventure:
Take a scenic drive to a nearby town or countryside and explore the sights along the way.

museum day


30.     DIY Spa Day:
Create a spa day at home, complete with DIY facial masks, bath salts, and soothing music.
31.     Learn a New Language:
Dedicate 10 minutes each day to learning a new language using language learning apps.
32.     Sunset Photography Challenge:
Capture the beauty of sunsets in different locations over the course of a month.
33.     Explore a New Coffee Shop:
Discover a new local coffee shop and treat yourself to a relaxing afternoon with a good book.
34.     Declutter and Donate:
Declutter your living space and donate items to a local charity or thrift store.
35.     Art Gallery Visit:
Spend a day exploring local art galleries and appreciating the creativity of local artists.
36.     Cooking Class:
Join a cooking class, either in person or online, to enhance your culinary skills.
37.     Creative Journaling:
Start a creative journal, incorporating art, writing, and reflections on your daily experiences.
38.     Birdwatching Adventure:
Explore a nearby nature reserve or park and observe the diverse bird species in the area.
39.     Mind-Body Connection Workshop:
Attend a workshop or class that focuses on the mind-body connection, such as yoga or tai chi.
40.     Stargazing Night:
Spend an evening stargazing, either in your backyard or at a local observatory.
41.     DIY Flower Arranging:
Purchase fresh flowers and learn the art of flower arranging to create beautiful bouquets.
42.     Visit a Farmers’ Market:
Explore a local farmers’ market, sampling fresh produce and supporting local farmers.
43.     Online Learning Adventure:
Enroll in an online course or workshop on a topic that interests you.
44.     Wine Tasting Evening:
Arrange a wine tasting evening with friends, each bringing a bottle to share and discuss.
45.     Learn a New Language:
Use an app or program to get started or sign up for a class at a local community college.

Vino & Vinyasa

46.     Local Yoga Retreat:
Book a yoga retreat in a nature-filled location, focusing on relaxation and mindfulness.
47.     Learn to Knit or Crochet:
Pick up knitting or crocheting and create a cozy scarf or blanket over the next month.
48.     Walking Meditation Challenge:
Practice walking meditation daily for a week, focusing on each step taken.
49.     Explore a New Hobby:
Find some time to dedicate to exploring a new hobby, whether it’s painting, pottery, or photography.

50.     DIY Movie Marathon:
Choose a theme and host a movie marathon night at home with friends or family.
51.     Visit a Botanical Garden:
Spend a day exploring the beauty of a local botanical garden and learning about different plant species.
52.     Hot Air Balloon Ride:
Splurge on a hot air balloon ride for a breathtaking, once-in-a-lifetime adventure.

What’s on YOUR adventure list?

I’ve included things that appeal to me, but what about you? What would you put on this list?

Even when times are tough, money is tight, and time is scarce, you can carve out some time to explore and expand your world. It’s part of what makes you well, you. Learning, experiencing and growing are all key elements to leading a fulfilling life.

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NO HEADSTANDS, PLEASE!

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I promise I am not opposed to headstands. BUT, hear me out on this. As a yoga teacher, I don’t practice headstands. Or legs behind the head pose. Or scorpion pose. Any posture that requires advanced flexibility is not for me and I don’t teach them in my classes or on my retreats.

And that’s okay.

No. Really.

I believe yoga is for everyone.

That means each person can take it where they want to go. You may wish to continuously increase your flexibility and mobility. You may want to practice in advanced movement. I am happy to refer any of my students who are interested in those things to the right teachers for them.

There are so many facets to yoga, and so many ways you can approach it.

There is a lot of controversy around this philosophy. Many yoga teachers are yoga purists who feel that the practice is part of an overall spiritual journey. They aren’t too happy about yoga being a physical practice for some people. Or a social and community bonding experience. Or basically anything other than a full spiritual experience.

If your approach focuses on the physicality of advanced movement – go for it! Conversely, if you are seeking a spiritual path and yoga is part of that; awesome! If you aren’t quite sure what your approach is, find out by taking this quick quiz.

I want to participate in and create a different experience.

For me, yoga is about enhancing your life. Yes, creating the flexibility and mobility needed to continue to do things you want to do in your everyday life. Headstands, not so much a part of daily life.

I love the physicality of yoga! The strength I feel when I practice, the challenge of movement. In addition, I am really drawn to the mind/body connection it creates.

Look, if you read the series My Journey to Yoga Retreat Specialist, you also know that my entire career has been in the fitness industry. So it is natural for me to find focus in the physical action of yoga.

Fitness, for me, also created a strong mind/body connection. A hard ride in a cycle class really let me blow off some steam! The intricate movements and high cardio output of a good old-fashioned step class helped me appreciate how my body moves through space. And boxing? Please – talk about building a feeling of mental and physical strength!

Yoga takes that mind/body connection to the next level.

Literally.

Fitness is the broad strokes: blowing off steam, building spatial awareness, and increasing mental strength.

Yoga gets down to the cellular level. Connecting your brain to your breath so you can self-regulate your nervous system. Speeding up the messages from your foot to your brain so you can maintain balance. Finding awareness of your thoughts and learning to allow them to pass on by.

This is the juicy stuff people!

Focus on making your life better.

Just to reiterate, I think advanced poses are pretty cool. Many would argue that those postures really do enhance your life – greater control, overcoming your body’s objections, and some pretty impressive flexibility/mobility. I don’t doubt it.

My personal mission, though, is to meet people where they are.

My tribe are people in the midst of juggling kids, careers, aging parents, and their own aging bodies. The crowd that resonates with my style wants to slow down, master, and enjoy each posture. They want to leave their practice feeling calmer, stronger, and accomplished.

Life is pretty crazy for a lot of us. Our schedules are packed, our laptops are always on, and we have instant knowledge, connectivity, and comparison in our purses, buzzing for attention all day long.

Personally, I don’t want to add legs behind my head to my to do list.

Calm, peace, and improved sleep and mental health mean more to me.

Studies show that participants who practiced yoga three times a week for eight weeks reported significant reductions in depression, anxiety, and neurotic symptoms, as well as mood improvements at the end of each class.

Yes, please!

Stepping into an advanced class might be a turn-off.

Part of meeting people where they are, for me, is making classes accessible. If you have never taken a yoga class before, you will be able to get through mine! I teach every class as if there is a brand-new participant in the room. I teach to them.

Those that have been practicing for a while, are able to hone their skills and dig in a little deeper with each practice.

If you have mastered advanced movement? You can still benefit from reviewing some of the more basic postures AND you will have the opportunity to level up to where you are at with a pose at any time.

I’m not everybody’s cup of tea, but I am somebody’s double martini!

Every yoga teacher has their own style, approach, and focus. That is what makes it so incredible!

It is important that you: A) understand what YOUR approach is so you know what kind of teacher will resonate with you B) aren’t afraid to hunt around for the right fit and C) realize that your approach may broaden and/or change over time.

It’s all good!

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MY JOURNEY TO YOGA RETREAT SPECIALIST PART 4: I’VE ARRIVED!

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Here we are – Yoga Retreat Specialist!

It has been a long journey from Hairdresser to Retreat Specialist. Honestly, I wouldn’t trade any of it. Life is a journey, and a big part of it is discovering what YOUR why is and how you can best support that.

I discovered early on, as a hairdresser, that my why involved helping people feel good in their own skin. How they looked, how they felt about themselves, and how those things influenced their confidence. As a hairdresser, it was about having a great hair day every day. When I became a Fitness Instructor, it was/is about feeling strong and being able to do the things you wanted to do in life, without your fitness holding you back.

As my executive career wound down, it felt natural to turn to yoga as the next evolution of my life and career. It feels like a true merging of that external and internal world, with a healthy dose of mental and emotional connection thrown into the mix.

Retreats vs. Studio

After a lot of thought – and a number of business plans later – I decided to focus my efforts on providing yoga and wellness retreats.

Studio

While I love the idea of opening a studio, there were too many cons on my pros/cons list.

  • If the pandemic response taught me anything, it’s that your physical location could be shut down at any time. While some landlords worked with their tenants, others did not. I saw more than a few friends and colleagues lose their life’s work (and savings!) and have no real recompense for it.
  • A studio for me would need to be multi-purpose. I would want several different studios under one roof and that means $$$! A tremendous amount of funding and business partnerships would need to take place. At this point in life, I wanted to do things my way, and not answer to anyone else apart from my clients and members
  • Part of my vision for the future involves travel! I want to see as much of the world as I can before I leave it. That is more challenging when you are anchored in one spot by a physical space

Retreat Specialist

On the other hand, running retreats and being a yoga & wellness retreat specialist, did not have the same issues.

  • Retreats can go where the open zones are! No closures other than travel restrictions. Since you are not running a retreat every weekend, the business impact would be far less should something like the pandemic occur again
  • Retreats can each be focused on my areas of passion:
    • serving interested and newer yogis, to give them a great start in their practice
    • supporting people dealing with stress, anxiety, and/or trauma
    • finding space in our lives to disconnect from our ever-present devices and screens
    • creating community in our increasingly isolated world
  • Adventure through Yoga!! Retreats allow us to experience the joys of travel. We get to immerse ourselves in our surroundings in a deep, mindful way. Combining adventure and wellness – what could be better?

Let the adventures begin!

I hope you have enjoyed this peek into my life and career. It has not been a straight line and certainly has not been without some major obstacles and setbacks.

Every step of the way, I have learned some valuable lessons. I have been refined, sometimes by fire, in my understanding of what makes me tick.

Understanding myself has led me to know how important it is to me to serve others. I’ve learned so many important business lessons along the way.

And I know that this is the path I want to continue on. Retirement is not the end; it is the beginning!! I still have lessons to learn, things to discover, and, I am sure, more refinements to make. Retreat Specialist is just the start.

But I know I am on the right path for me.

Want to come along for the ride?

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