5 REASONS YOU FEEL LIKE SOMETHING IS MISSING

You’ve accomplished a lot. Whether it’s raising a family, advancing in your career, or managing the complex dynamics of relationships, you’ve built a life full of meaning and purpose.

But every now and then, you can’t shake the feeling that despite all you’ve achieved, something is missing.

That sense of emptiness or restlessness can be confusing, especially when it seems like you should feel content.

This feeling is more common than you might think, especially when you’re balancing a busy, multi-faceted life. It’s easy to push these thoughts aside and power through your day, but that underlying feeling could be your inner voice nudging you toward something more.

Understanding why you feel this way is the first step toward addressing it. Here are five reasons you might be experiencing this sense of missing something and how to shift your mindset to reclaim a more fulfilled life.

1. You’ve Been Prioritizing Others for Too Long

When you’re responsible for many people—whether in your professional life, your family, or your community—it becomes second nature to focus on their needs before your own. You spend time ensuring everything is running smoothly, that others are happy and well-cared for. This constant outward focus can leave little space for you to check in with yourself. Over time, this imbalance can lead to burnout and a feeling of being disconnected from your own needs.

This is especially common for those in caregiving roles, whether that’s for children, aging parents, or even within a leadership position at work. The satisfaction of helping others is meaningful, but without replenishing your own energy and tuning into your own desires, you’re left running on empty. That feeling of something being missing could be a sign that it’s time to shift your focus inward and ask yourself what you truly need.

Start by carving out small moments in your day to connect with yourself. Whether it’s through meditation, journaling, or simply a quiet cup of coffee in the morning, these small acts of self-reflection can help you begin to reconnect with the parts of you that have been neglected.

2. Your Identity Has Become Tied to Your Roles

You’ve worn many hats in your life, from being a spouse, a parent, and a professional to a leader and a caregiver. Each role has shaped you, contributing to who you are today. However, when your identity becomes entirely tied to these roles, it can be hard to separate who you are from what you do. While these roles are essential, they don’t encompass the full spectrum of your being.

The sense of something missing may come from this over-identification with your roles.

When we define ourselves solely by our responsibilities or accomplishments, we miss out on the other parts of our identity that crave attention—our passions, dreams, and creative outlets.

These elements of ourselves often get pushed aside in favor of meeting external expectations.

To combat this, it’s important to nurture the parts of you that don’t directly relate to your job title or family role. Maybe it’s a hobby you used to love but no longer make time for, or a creative pursuit you’ve put on the back burner. Rediscovering these parts of yourself can bring back the joy and fulfillment that’s been missing.

3. Life Transitions Have Shifted Your Priorities

Life is made up of a series of transitions. Children grow up, careers evolve, relationships change. You may be in a phase of life where many of these transitions are happening at once—your kids have moved out, your career might be at a peak or in transition, and you’re possibly stepping into the role of caregiver for aging parents. While these shifts can bring new opportunities, they can also leave you feeling like the old way of doing things no longer works for you.

This feeling of something missing could be an invitation to redefine what fulfillment looks like for this stage of your life. The things that once filled your cup—such as family milestones or professional achievements—might not provide the same level of satisfaction now. As your external circumstances change, your internal desires and goals may also shift.

Embracing this transition as an opportunity for self-reflection can help you uncover new sources of fulfillment. What do you want more of in this next phase of life? What do you want less of? Taking the time to explore these questions can help you adjust to the new normal and create a life that feels rich and meaningful.

4. Your Life Feels Out of Balance

When you’re living a fast-paced life, it’s easy to lose balance. You’re constantly moving from one task to the next, trying to keep up with the demands of work, family, and personal obligations.

While you may be excelling in some areas, the constant juggling act can leave you feeling stretched too thin. When life feels out of balance, that missing piece could be the time and space to simply breathe.

The constant busyness may prevent you from pausing to assess whether the way you’re spending your time aligns with your core values. Over time, this imbalance creates a disconnection between what you’re doing and what truly nourishes you. That feeling of something being missing could stem from not having enough time to focus on what matters most to you.

Finding balance doesn’t necessarily mean doing less, but it does mean being intentional about how you spend your time. Evaluate where your energy is going and whether those areas are fulfilling. It might be time to delegate responsibilities or say no to commitments that don’t serve you, creating more room for the things that bring you joy and balance.

5. You Crave Deeper Meaning

In the midst of managing your daily responsibilities, it’s easy to lose sight of the bigger picture. While you’re likely doing well in your career and personal life, there may be a deeper part of you that’s searching for more—whether that’s a greater sense of purpose, spiritual connection, or personal growth. That lingering feeling of something missing could be a signal that you’re ready to connect with a deeper sense of meaning.

This might manifest as a desire for more profound connections with the people around you, or it could be a longing to contribute to something bigger than yourself. Sometimes, what’s missing isn’t something external at all, but rather an internal connection with your values, your purpose, or a spiritual practice that grounds you.

Consider exploring new avenues for personal development or deepening your connection with practices that inspire you, whether that’s through meditation, volunteering, or participating in activities that bring you closer to your sense of purpose. By aligning with what truly matters to you, you can fill that void with meaning and fulfillment.

You are not alone

Feeling like something is missing in your life isn’t a sign that you’ve done anything wrong; it’s often a natural part of growth and evolution. It’s a signal that you’re ready for the next step in your personal journey.

If any of these reasons resonate with you, now might be the perfect time to take action. Laylo Yoga & Wellness offers retreats and courses designed to help you reconnect with yourself, explore what’s truly missing, and discover the tools to create a more fulfilling, balanced life. By taking the time to step away from your daily routine and focus on your personal growth, you can realign with what matters most and create the space to live a more enriched, meaningful life.

Isn’t it time to leave burnout behind and lead a life that makes YOU a priority? Consider rebooting your mind and body with one of our wellness retreats! Designed specifically to immerse you in an environment that takes you out of your daily grind, you will be able to focus on crafting your life in a way that honors your family and career while carving out time to pursue interests that excite you so you can feel balanced, fulfilled, and calm. Get on the info list so you know what is happening, when, and where!

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BURNOUT TO BALANCE

By Laura WELLNESS

Understanding the Impact of Burnout and How Wellness Can Help

Burnout has become a buzzword, but it’s a serious issue affecting millions of people worldwide.

It’s not just about feeling tired after a long day; it’s chronic stress that can lead to severe physical and mental health issues.

I am a data sort of gal – I love to look at the numbers and see what story emerges. Let’s dive into some stats from the U.S., Canada, and Europe and explore how prioritizing wellness can help turn burnout into balance.

Burnout by the Numbers

Overall Stats

Burnout doesn’t discriminate—it impacts workers across different regions. In the U.S., around 52% of workers report feeling burned out, with 43% experiencing it frequently. In Canada, the number is slightly lower, with 40% of workers feeling burned out and 34% dealing with high levels of personal and professional fatigue. Europe isn’t far behind, with about 25% to 30% of workers reporting significant burnout.

Men vs. Women

Gender plays a role in burnout, with women generally experiencing higher rates. In the U.S., 55% of women report feeling burned out compared to 48% of men. Canada shows similar trends, with 43% of women and 37% of men feeling burned out. In Europe, 33% of women report burnout, while 27% of men experience it.

Age Groups

Age also influences burnout. Younger workers tend to report higher levels. In the U.S., 56% of workers aged 18-29 feel burned out, compared to 50% of those aged 30-44, 45% of those aged 45-60, and 38% of those over 60. In Canada, 50% of young workers report burnout, decreasing to 28% for those over 60. European statistics mirror these trends, with 35% of younger workers and 20% of older workers feeling burned out.

Race and Ethnicity

Feeling burned out also varies significantly by race and ethnicity, highlighting the unique challenges faced by different groups. This includes differences between the professional and personal sides of the fence.

United States:
- White: 50% professional, 45% personal
- Black or African American: 55% professional, 50% personal
- Hispanic or Latino: 60% professional, 55% personal
- Asian: 45% professional, 40% personal
- Other Races/Ethnicities: 53% professional, 48% personal
Canada:
- White: 38% professional, 35% personal
- Black or African Canadian: 42% professional, 40% personal
- Indigenous: 47% professional, 45% personal
- Asian (including South Asian): 40% professional, 37% personal
- Other Races/Ethnicities: 43% professional, 39% personal
Europe:
- White/European Descent: 25% professional, 22% personal
- Black or African Descent: 30% professional, 27% personal
- Asian (including South Asian and East Asian): 28% professional, 24% personal
- Other Races/Ethnicities: 29% professional, 25% personal

Blue Collar vs. White Collar

The type of job someone does significantly impacts burnout levels. White-collar workers tend to report higher rates than blue-collar workers. In the U.S., 58% of white-collar workers report feeling burned out, compared to 42% of blue-collar workers. Canada and Europe follow suit, with 45% and 32% of white-collar workers, respectively, compared to 35% and 22% of blue-collar workers.

Parental Status

Having children can also influence burnout. In the U.S., 54% of parents report feeling burned out, compared to 49% of those without children. Canadian parents and non-parents report rates of 45% and 38%, respectively. In Europe, 34% of parents feel burned out, compared to 27% of non-parents.

Economic Status

Economic status plays a crucial role in feelings of stress and fatigue. In the U.S., 60% of low-income workers report burnout, compared to 50% of middle-income and 35% of high-income workers. In Canada, 52% of low-income workers feel burned out, while only 28% of high-income workers do. European statistics show 40% of low-income workers, compared to 30% of middle-income and 20% of high-income workers.

These stats may come as no surprise. After all, having more challenging life circumstances and/or less support structures are naturally going to contribute to the emotional and mental stress and fatigue characterized by feeling burned out.

Factors Contributing to Burnout

Workload

One of the most significant factors contributing to burnout is workload. High workloads, especially in white-collar jobs, lead to chronic stress and fatigue. Constantly feeling overwhelmed and unable to keep up with work demands can quickly result in a crash.

Work-Life Balance

Poor work-life balance exacerbates burnout. When work bleeds into personal time, it becomes challenging to relax and recharge. This issue is particularly pronounced for those with children, who have additional responsibilities outside of work.

Job Control

Feeling a lack of control over one’s job and duties is another major contributor to burnout. When employees feel they have no say in their work, it can lead to feelings of helplessness and stress.

Support Systems

Limited support from supervisors and colleagues can increase the risk of burnout. A supportive work environment where employees feel valued and understood can mitigate stress and prevent feeling overwhelmed and unable to keep up.

Economic Pressure

Financial stress and job insecurity are significant factors contributing to burnout, particularly for low-income workers. The constant worry about making ends meet adds to the mental and emotional strain.

Personal Life Stressors

Personal responsibilities, such as childcare and household management, can add to professional stress, leading to burnout. Balancing work and personal life becomes a juggling act that can be overwhelming.

Technology Use

Constant connectivity and the inability to disconnect from work, even during off-hours, contribute significantly to burnout. The pressure to always be available and responsive can lead to chronic stress.

Turning Burnout into Balance

While it may seem like you are stuck in a never-ending loop of burnout, there is hope!

Taking charge of your wellness takes action. Small daily steps, larger monthly milestones, and some big yearly goals will help bring balance back to your life.

Prioritize Self-Care

Self-care isn’t selfish; it’s essential. Make time for activities that nourish your soul, whether it’s yoga, meditation, a walk in nature, or simply reading a good book. Self-care helps recharge your batteries and reduces stress.

Stay Active

Incorporating physical activity into your daily routine can make a big difference. It doesn’t have to be intense—even a short walk during your lunch break can help. Exercise reduces stress hormones and increases endorphins, improving mood and energy levels.

Eat Mindfully

Pay attention to what you eat. Choose nourishing foods that fuel your body and mind. A balanced diet can improve energy levels and overall well-being, helping you cope better with stress.

Connect with Others

Surround yourself with a supportive community. Share your wellness journey with friends, family, or colleagues. Social connections provide emotional support and can help reduce feelings of isolation and stress.

Set Boundaries

Setting boundaries between work and personal life is crucial. Learn to say no when necessary and ensure you have time to unwind and relax. This separation helps maintain a healthy work-life balance.

Seek Professional Help

If you’re struggling, don’t hesitate to seek professional help. Therapists and counselors can provide strategies and support to help you manage stress and improve your mental health.

Engage in Wellness Programs

Participating in wellness programs can provide structure and support for your wellness journey. Many employers offer wellness initiatives, including yoga and meditation classes, which can help reduce stress and improve overall well-being.

Embrace Technology Wisely

While technology can contribute to burnout, it can also be a tool for wellness. Use apps and online resources to practice mindfulness, track your health, and connect with wellness communities. However, be mindful of your screen time and ensure you have periods of digital detox.

The Role of Employers in Combating Burnout

The term “burnout” started in the workplace, to describe feelings of overwhelm and ongoing stress related to our jobs. Over time, it has come to encompass our overall lives.

That doesn’t mean employers shouldn’t sit up and take notice though! It is in a company’s best interest to support their employees with their wellbeing.

Supportive Work Environment

Employers play a crucial role in preventing burnout. A supportive work environment where employees feel valued and understood can mitigate stress and prevent overwhlem. Encouraging open communication and providing resources for mental health can make a significant difference.

Flexible Work Arrangements

Offering flexible work arrangements, such as remote work or flexible hours, can help employees balance work and personal responsibilities. Flexibility reduces stress and allows employees to manage their time more effectively.

Wellness Programs

Employers can offer wellness programs that promote physical and mental health. Programs such as yoga classes, meditation sessions, and stress management workshops can provide employees with tools to manage stress and improve well-being.

Recognize and Reward

Recognizing and rewarding employees for their hard work and achievements can boost morale and reduce burnout. Feeling appreciated and valued can motivate employees and improve job satisfaction.

Provide Resources

Providing resources for mental health, such as access to counseling services and mental health days, can support employees’ well-being. Ensuring employees have the support they need to manage stress can prevent burnout.

Burnout is a significant issue that affects many people across the U.S., Canada, and Europe. Understanding the factors that contribute to burnout and taking steps to prioritize wellness can help turn burnout into balance.

By making self-care a priority, staying active, eating mindfully, and connecting with others, you can improve your well-being and reduce stress. Employers also play a crucial role in preventing burnout by creating a supportive work environment and offering wellness programs. Remember, taking care of yourself is not a luxury—it’s a necessity for a healthy, balanced life.

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REWILD YOUR LIFE

By Laura Rewild Yourself, WELLNESS

Rediscover Yourself Amidst Life’s Chaos

In the hustle of daily life, it’s easy to lose yourself. Between demanding careers, adult children and/or grandchildren, and caring for aging parents, finding time for yourself can feel impossible.

But there’s a transformative practice that can help you reconnect with your core self: Rewilding.

To Rewild yourself is about rediscovering your innate nature, your wild essence. It’s not just a retreat into the wilderness, but a return to your inner wilderness. This journey is about peeling away the layers of societal expectations, responsibilities, and roles that have accumulated over the years. It’s about listening to the whispers of your soul and honoring your true self.

Start with Nature

Start with small steps. Spend time in nature—walk barefoot on the grass, breathe in the forest air, or simply sit by a stream. Nature has a unique way of grounding us and offering a sense of peace and clarity. Consider regular hikes, nature walks, or even gardening as ways to connect with the earth. These moments in nature can serve as a reminder of the simplicity and beauty of life, helping you to slow down and appreciate the present. Rewild yourself with the wild around you!

Revive Old Passions

Embrace creative pursuits that you once loved but set aside, like painting, dancing, or writing. These activities can reignite your passions and remind you of who you are beyond your roles and obligations. Take a class in something that has always intrigued you or start a small project that brings you joy. The act of creating can be incredibly therapeutic and fulfilling.

Physical Self-Care

To Rewild yourself also means caring for your physical self. Prioritize nourishing foods, regular movement, and ample rest. Listen to your body’s needs and honor them without guilt.

This self-care is not an indulgence; it’s essential for maintaining your vitality and connection to your core.

Explore different types of physical activity that resonate with you, whether it’s yoga, tai chi, or even dance. The goal is to find joy in movement and to reconnect with your body in a positive, loving way. Radical Wellness is a way of life!

Mindfulness Practices

Practice mindfulness. Meditation, journaling, or simply taking a few minutes each day to breathe deeply can help you stay connected to your inner self. These practices can serve as a reminder that, despite the chaos around you, there is a wild, unchanging essence within. Start a daily journal where you can express your thoughts and feelings freely. Meditation apps or guided sessions can be particularly helpful if you’re new to the practice.

Set Boundaries

Learn to set boundaries. It’s essential to carve out time for yourself amidst your responsibilities. Communicate your needs to your family and loved ones. It’s okay to say no to certain obligations that drain your energy and take away from your personal growth. Setting these boundaries will allow you the space and time to focus on rewilding yourself.

Connect with Like-Minded Individuals

Surround yourself with people who support your journey. Seek out communities or groups that resonate with your rewilding goals. Sharing this experience with like-minded individuals can provide encouragement and inspiration. Join local meetups, online forums, or workshops focused on personal growth and nature connection.

Simplify Your Life

Consider simplifying your life. Declutter your living space and remove things that no longer serve you. A simpler, more organized environment can lead to a clearer mind and more focused energy. This process of decluttering can be incredibly freeing and can help you feel more in control of your surroundings.

Practice Gratitude

Incorporate a daily gratitude practice. Taking a few moments each day to reflect on what you are thankful for can shift your mindset and help you focus on the positives in your life. This practice can bring a sense of peace and fulfillment, reminding you of the abundance around you.

Reconnect with Your Inner Child

Reconnect with your inner child. Engage in activities that you loved as a child—whether it’s playing a musical instrument, drawing, or simply daydreaming. These activities can unlock a sense of joy and wonder that you may have forgotten.

Explore Rewilding Retreats

Consider attending a rewilding retreat. These retreats are specifically designed to help you disconnect from the chaos of daily life and reconnect with your inner self and nature.

They offer structured programs that may include activities like wildlife interaction, mindfulness exercises, yoga, and creative workshops.

The immersive experience in a supportive environment can accelerate your journey to self-discovery and provide tools and practices to integrate into your everyday life. Research and find a retreat that aligns with your interests and goals, and take the plunge into a transformative experience.

Rewilding yourself is a journey back to your roots, to the person you were before life’s demands took over. It’s about reclaiming your joy, passions, and sense of wonder. Embrace this path, and you’ll find that reconnecting with your core nature brings profound fulfillment and balance. Remember, this journey is personal and unique to you, so honor your own pace and preferences. Rewilding is not a destination but an ongoing process of self-discovery and growth.

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BREAKING THE BURNOUT CYCLE: STRATEGIES FOR LASTING WELLNESS

By Laura Burnout, WELLNESS

In our previous articles, we’ve delved into the pressures that lead to burnout, explored its symptoms, and examined how it specifically impacts women, especially the Gen X cohort.

In this final installment, we’ll focus on actionable strategies to avoid burnout and steps to recover if you’re already experiencing it. This comprehensive guide aims to empower you with the tools to reclaim your well-being and thrive.

Preventing Burnout: Proactive Wellness Strategies

1. Prioritize Self-Care

Self-care is not a luxury; it’s a necessity. Incorporate daily practices that nurture your physical, mental, and emotional health. This can include activities like:

Exercise: Regular physical activity, whether it’s yoga, walking, or swimming, can significantly reduce stress levels and improve overall well-being.
Sleep: Aim for 7-9 hours of quality sleep each night. Create a relaxing bedtime routine to help you unwind and prepare for restful sleep.
Nutrition: Eat a balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, and whole grains. Avoid excessive caffeine and sugar, which can lead to energy crashes and mood swings.

2. Set Boundaries

Setting healthy boundaries is crucial to avoid burnout. This involves:

Work-Life Balance: Define clear boundaries between work and personal time. For example, avoid checking work emails after hours and take regular breaks during the day.
Saying No: It’s okay to decline additional responsibilities that you cannot manage. Overcommitting is a fast track to burnout.
Personal Space: Ensure you have time and space for yourself, free from the demands of work and family.

3. Foster Social Connections

Strong social connections can provide emotional support and a sense of belonging. Make time to connect with friends, family, and colleagues. Joining groups or clubs that align with your interests, whether it’s a book club, a fitness class, or a volunteer organization.

4. Manage Stress

Effective stress management techniques are essential for preventing burnout. Consider the following practices:

Mindfulness and Meditation: Regular mindfulness practice can help you stay present and reduce anxiety. Apps like Headspace or Calm can guide you through meditation sessions.
Hobbies: Engage in activities that you enjoy and that help you relax. This could be anything from gardening to painting to playing a musical instrument.
Professional Help: Don’t hesitate to seek help from a therapist or counselor if you’re struggling to manage stress on your own.

Recovering from Burnout: Steps to Rebuild Your Energy

1. Recognize and Accept

The first step in overcoming burnout is acknowledging it. Many women in midlife feel pressure to “power through” fatigue and stress, but this only exacerbates the problem. Accept that you are experiencing burnout and that it’s okay to take a step back.

2. Rest and Recharge

Rest is critical to recovery. Take time off work if possible, or at least reduce your workload. Use this time to:

Sleep: Prioritize getting enough rest. Aim to sleep more if you’re feeling particularly exhausted.
Disconnect: Limit your use of technology, especially work-related devices. Allow yourself to unplug and disconnect from constant demands.

3. Reevaluate Priorities

Burnout often signals a need for change. Reflect on your current lifestyle and responsibilities:

Assess Workload: Identify tasks that are draining your energy. Delegate or eliminate unnecessary obligations.
Life Goals: Reevaluate your long-term goals and align your daily activities to support these aspirations. This might involve career changes, pursuing new hobbies, or simplifying your lifestyle.

4. Seek Support

You don’t have to navigate burnout alone. Reach out to others for support:

Talk to Your Employer: Discuss your situation with your manager or HR department. They may offer flexible work arrangements or reduced hours.
Lean on Loved Ones: Share your feelings with family and friends. Their support can provide emotional relief and practical help.
Professional Guidance: Consider working with a coach or therapist to develop a personalized recovery plan.

5. Implement Long-Term Changes

Recovery from burnout is not just about immediate relief; it’s about making sustainable changes to prevent recurrence. Integrate long-term strategies such as:

Regular Self-Care: Make self-care a non-negotiable part of your routine.
Continuous Learning: Stay informed about burnout prevention and recovery techniques. Resources like Laylo Yoga & Wellness’ Radical Wellness guide offer valuable insights and support.
Mindful Living: Cultivate mindfulness in everyday activities to maintain a balanced perspective and reduce stress.

Wellness for the Future

Burnout is a significant challenge, but it can be managed and overcome with the right strategies.

By prioritizing self-care, setting boundaries, fostering social connections, and managing stress effectively, you can prevent burnout from taking hold.

If you are already experiencing burnout, recognize it, take time to rest and recharge, reevaluate your priorities, seek support, and implement long-term changes to rebuild your energy and well-being.

Remember, the journey to recovery and prevention is a personal one. Each step you take towards better self-care and balance is a step towards a healthier, more fulfilling life. For further guidance and support, consider exploring resources from Laylo Yoga & Wellness, where you can find additional tips and practices to enhance your journey towards well-being.

In closing, we hope this series has provided you with valuable insights and practical tools to navigate the complexities of burnout. Embrace the process of self-discovery and healing, and know that you have the power to create a balanced and vibrant life. Stay committed to your well-being, and let each day be a testament to your strength and resilience.

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THE HIDDEN BURNOUT TRIGGERS DRAINING YOUR ENERGY

By Laura Boundaries, Burnout, WELLNESS

Burnout is a growing concern in today’s fast-paced world, affecting individuals across various demographics.

Characterized by emotional exhaustion, depersonalization, and a diminished sense of personal accomplishment, burnout is a state of chronic stress that can severely impact your health, productivity, and quality of life.

Among the myriad causes of burnout, job stress and family responsibilities, including caring for children, grandchildren, and aging parents, are particularly significant. And of critical importance to note, these responsibilities are often things we are happy to do. At first.

The ongoing nature of the tasks involved, the gradual squeezing out of any time for yourself, and the general expectation that you will continue at this pace indefinitely, is often what pushes people from “glad to help” to “how do I get the hell out of here?!”

Let’s dive into these causes, who is affected, and examine why burnout tends to be more pronounced among women.

Job Stress: A Primary Culprit

Job stress is a major contributor to burnout, with numerous studies underscoring its pervasive impact. According to the American Psychological Association (APA), 79% of Americans report experiencing work-related stress.

Key factors contributing to job stress include:

High Workload: Excessive work demands, tight deadlines, and long hours are commonplace in many industries, leading to chronic stress.
Lack of Control: Employees often feel powerless in their roles, lacking control over their work processes or decisions, which exacerbates stress.
Unclear Job Expectations: Uncertain expectations and inconsistent feedback can create confusion and anxiety.
Work-Life Imbalance: The blurring of boundaries between work and personal life, especially with the rise of remote work, makes it challenging to disengage from job-related stressors.

A 2022 Gallup survey revealed that 44% of employees experience significant job-related stress daily, emphasizing the widespread nature of this issue.

Family Responsibilities: The Added Burden

While the World Health Organization categorizes burnout as an “occupational phenomenon”, there is far more to it than that. In addition to job stress, family responsibilities significantly contribute to burnout.

Caring for children, grandchildren, and aging parents presents unique challenges that can strain an individual’s emotional and physical resources.

Childcare: Parenting demands constant attention, emotional support, and physical care, which can be exhausting. According to the Pew Research Center, 41% of working parents find it difficult to manage work and family responsibilities.
Grandparenting: Many grandparents are stepping in to provide childcare, a trend that has increased during the COVID-19 pandemic. The American Grandparents Association reports that nearly 7.8 million children in the U.S. live in households headed by grandparents.
Elder Care: Caring for aging parents involves managing medical appointments, providing daily care, and handling financial and legal matters. AARP estimates that about 53 million Americans are unpaid caregivers, with many reporting high levels of stress.

The Gender Disparity: Why Burnout is Worse for Women

While burnout affects everyone, it disproportionately impacts women due to a combination of societal expectations, workplace dynamics, and family responsibilities.

Societal Expectations: Women often face societal pressure to excel both at work and in their roles as caregivers, leading to unrealistic expectations and chronic stress.
Workplace Inequality: Despite advancements, women still encounter gender discrimination, pay disparities, and limited career advancement opportunities. The World Economic Forum reports that women are less likely to hold senior positions, contributing to job dissatisfaction and burnout.
Double Burden: Women are more likely to shoulder the majority of household and caregiving responsibilities. The International Labour Organization notes that women perform 76.2% of total hours of unpaid care work, significantly more than men.
Emotional Labor: Women are often expected to manage the emotional needs of their families, adding another layer of stress. This invisible labor includes everything from planning family activities to providing emotional support.

A 2020 study by Lean In and McKinsey & Company found that 1 in 4 women were considering downshifting their careers or leaving the workforce due to burnout, highlighting the severe impact of these combined stressors.

What burnout is not

It’s important to understand that burnout it not just a bad day or even a bad week. It’s more than working long hours or juggling too many tasks. These are contributing factors of course.

It is the prolonged nature of these challenges that turn a rough patch into burnout. It’s why taking breaks, setting boundaries, and learning effective coping strategies are so critical.

How do you know if you are experiencing burnout or are headed that way? Take a moment to reflect and honestly ask yourself the following questions:

Emotional Exhaustion

Do I feel emotionally drained and depleted most of the time?
Do I find it difficult to muster the energy to start or complete tasks?
Am I feeling overwhelmed by my responsibilities and tasks?

Physical Symptoms

Am I experiencing frequent headaches, stomach issues, or other physical symptoms that weren’t there before?
Do I feel constantly tired, even after getting enough sleep?
Have my sleep patterns changed significantly (trouble falling asleep, staying asleep, or sleeping too much)?

Cognitive Symptoms

Is it hard for me to concentrate or make decisions?
Do I find myself forgetting things more often than usual?
Am I experiencing a sense of detachment or feeling disconnected from my surroundings or activities?

Emotional Symptoms

Have I become more irritable, impatient, or short-tempered with others?
Do I feel a sense of apathy or lack of interest in things I used to enjoy?
Am I feeling a persistent sense of hopelessness or helplessness?

Behavioral Changes

Have I noticed any changes in my eating habits, such as eating significantly more or less than usual?
Am I withdrawing from social activities or isolating myself from friends and family?
Have my work habits changed, such as procrastinating more or being less productive?

Attitude Towards Work

Do I feel a sense of dread about going to work or starting my workday?
Am I feeling cynical or negative about my job or work environment?
Do I feel unappreciated or undervalued in my work?

Overall Satisfaction

Do I feel a lack of accomplishment or a sense of ineffectiveness in my work or personal life?
Am I questioning whether my work or efforts are making a difference?

Personal Reflection

Am I struggling to find a sense of purpose or meaning in my daily activities?
Do I feel that my work-life balance is heavily skewed or non-existent?
Am I neglecting self-care and not taking time for activities that I find relaxing or enjoyable?

Answering “yes” to several of these questions might indicate that you are experiencing burnout. If this is the case, it may be beneficial to seek support, whether through speaking with a supervisor about your workload, consulting a mental health professional, or finding ways to incorporate more rest and self-care into your routine.

Burnout is real!

Burnout is a multifaceted issue influenced by job stress and extensive family responsibilities. Understanding the underlying causes is crucial for developing effective strategies to mitigate its impact.

For women, the challenge is particularly acute due to the compounded pressures of professional and personal expectations.

Addressing burnout requires a holistic approach that includes workplace reforms, societal support systems, and a shift in cultural norms to promote a more balanced and equitable distribution of responsibilities.

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BUSTING BURNOUT MYTHS

By Laura Burnout, Mindset

Unmasking Burnout: Debunking Common Myths

Burnout is an increasingly recognized issue in our fast-paced world, but it’s also widely misunderstood.

Many people attribute burnout to simple dissatisfaction with one’s job or believe it’s solely a job-related issue.

These misconceptions can hinder effective prevention and recovery. Let’s delve into what burnout truly is, what it is not, and debunk some prevalent myths.

Understanding Burnout

Burnout is a state of chronic physical and emotional exhaustion. It is often accompanied by feelings of cynicism and detachment from work or personal life, as well as a sense of reduced accomplishment. It was first recognized in the 1970s by psychologist Herbert Freudenberger, who observed it in professions with high stress levels.

Today, burnout is considered a legitimate occupational phenomenon by the World Health Organization (WHO), which defines it specifically in the context of work. However, understanding it requires recognizing that it extends beyond just job-related issues.

Myth 1: You Don’t Like What You Do

One of the most pervasive myths is that burnout only happens because you don’t like your job. While job dissatisfaction can contribute to it, it is far from the whole story. Many people who love their jobs still experience burnout.

Passionate individuals often push themselves harder, set higher expectations, and may neglect self-care in pursuit of their goals. This is a recipe for burnout. Enjoying your work doesn’t make you immune to the pressures and stresses that cause burnout.

Myth 2: Burnout is Only Job-Related

Another common myth is that this situation is exclusively a job-related issue. While work stress is a significant factor, these feelings can also stem from other areas of life. This might include caregiving responsibilities, personal relationships, or even relentless personal pursuits.

The key elements — exhaustion, cynicism, and feelings of inefficacy—can emerge from any prolonged and intense stress, not just job-related stress.

What It Is

Chronic Stress Response: Burnout is a response to prolonged stress, leading to exhaustion, cynicism, and a feeling of reduced professional efficacy. It’s the result of a constant demand on your resources without adequate time for recovery.
Emotional and Physical Exhaustion: It often manifests as a deep fatigue that isn’t alleviated by rest. This exhaustion impacts both emotional and physical well-being, making it hard to find motivation or energy.
Cynicism and Detachment: People experiencing burnout often become cynical about their work and feel detached from their tasks and colleagues. This can lead to a decline in performance and satisfaction. The same can be true of feelings toward family obligations.
Sense of Inefficacy: It includes a sense of ineffectiveness and lack of accomplishment. Even when tasks are completed, you have a pervasive feeling that nothing is truly achieved.

What It Is Not

Simple Dislike for Work: Disliking your job can cause stress, but burnout is a deeper, more chronic issue. It that goes beyond simple dissatisfaction. It’s an erosion of the soul caused by an imbalance between demands and resources.
A Sign of Weakness: Experiencing burnout doesn’t mean you are weak or incapable. It’s a signal that the environment you’re in, or the way you’re managing stress, is unsustainable. It’s a call to reassess and adjust, not a reflection of personal failure.
A Professional Issue: Burnout isn’t confined to the workplace. Stay-at-home parents, caregivers, students, and anyone facing continuous stress without adequate support can experience burnout.

Addressing Burnout

To effectively combat burnout, it’s crucial to:

Recognize the Signs Early: Understanding the symptoms—chronic fatigue, detachment, and feelings of inefficacy—can help in seeking help sooner.
Promote Work-Life Balance: Ensuring adequate rest, engaging in hobbies, and spending time with loved ones can help mitigate burnout.
Seek Support: Professional help, whether from a mental health professional or a supportive network, can provide strategies and relief.
Prioritize Self-Care: Regular exercise, healthy eating, and mindfulness practices are vital in maintaining overall well-being and resilience against burnout.

Burnout is a complex, multifaceted issue that cannot be reduced to simple dislike for a job or confined to the workplace alone. By debunking these myths and understanding the true nature of it. We can better address it and foster healthier, more sustainable environments both at work and at home.

What Can I Do About It?

We will be talking more about this over the next few posts! Learn to recognize it early, avoid or combat it, and if you are already knee deep, how to overcome it. Stay tuned!

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